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Apr 14
12m 20s

Stop Needing Validation to Feel Enough

Pearlieee
About this episode

You feel like you’re never enough—no matter what you achieve, how you look, or how hard you try. Maybe you’re constantly comparing, chasing validation, or wondering what’s wrong with you. If that’s where you are, this video is your soft landing and your wake-up call.

We’ll explore why you’ve internalized feelings of unworthiness, how to stop outsourcing your value, and what it really takes to build unshakable self-worth from the inside out. You’ll learn practical steps to quiet the inner critic, detach from toxic expectations, and finally feel like you are enough—just as you are.


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