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Feb 2025
19m 47s

Nobody Cares! 5 Mindset Shifts to Stop O...

Melinde Huez
About this episode

In this episode of Behind the Layers, confidence coach Melinde dives deep into how the fear of judgment holds us back from living boldly. She shares five powerful mindset shifts to help you break free from overthinking, self-doubt, and people-pleasing, so you can confidently own your voice, take action, and stop playing small.

You'll learn:
✨ Why people don’t think about you as much as you fear
✨ How shifting your focus to purpose eliminates fear
✨ Why the right people will love the real you (and how to stop caring about those who don’t)
✨ How to ditch perfectionism and embrace your growth journey
✨ The hidden reason you fear judgment—and how to heal your self-image from within

If you’re tired of second-guessing yourself and ready to step into your power, this episode is for you. Plus, Melinde shares an exciting sneak peek into her upcoming Inner Confidence Program—a deep transformational journey to help you build lasting, unshakable confidence.

🎧 Tune in now and start rewriting your self-belief! And if this resonates, DM Melinde or comment your biggest takeaway—she loves hearing your stories!


VIP waitlist: https://lindehuez.myflodesk.com/coursewaitlist


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