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Mar 2025
27m 6s

how to love yourself instead of seeking ...

Kim Peretz
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Let's chat how to *actually love yourself. From within, the type of self-love that's unbreakable, unshakable, and powerful AF. In this episode, we talk about how to release the need for external validation and finally give yourself permission to be in your power. We’ll get into: Why external validation is never enough (and how to break the cycle) The sub ... Show More
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