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Apr 2025
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136: What To Do When You're Anxious In D...

The Sabrina Zohar Show
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Why do you keep spiraling after a date that seemed perfect? Why does your chest tighten when they don’t text back? It’s not just anxiety—it’s your nervous system sounding the alarm. In this eye-opening episode, Sabrina sits down with nervous system educator Jessica Maguire to explore the hidden physiological patterns driving anxious thoughts, emotional dysregulation, and the urge to chase emotionally unavailable partners.

Whether you're constantly scanning for red flags or feel overwhelmed by connection, this conversation breaks down the difference between true intuition and trauma-informed reactions. Jessica shares actionable tools to reconnect with your body, regulate your responses in dating, and stop the cycle of self-abandonment. If you’re tired of your emotions hijacking your love life, this episode will help you get back into the driver's seat—grounded, clear, and calm.

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