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Apr 2025
18m 42s

Why You Fall in Love with the Wrong Peop...

Rob Dial
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Why do we fall for people who are wrong for us? In this episode, I dive deep into the psychology behind romantic patterns. If you've ever felt stuck in a cycle of toxic relationships or wondered why the “wrong” person feels so right, this episode is for you. 
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