Why do we fall for people who are wrong for us? In this episode, I dive deep into the psychology behind romantic patterns. If you've ever felt stuck in a cycle of toxic relationships or wondered why the “wrong” person feels so right, this episode is for you.
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You Need to Let Your Old Self Die
What if the only thing standing between you and the life you want is the old version of yourself you refuse to let go of? In this episode, I’ll show you why your brain keeps rebuilding your past, how to create a vivid vision of the person you’re becoming, and how to make that fut ... Show More
17m 13s
Sep 7
How to Enjoy Your Life
Are you actually enjoying your life, or are you constantly waiting for the next achievement to make you happy? In this episode, I break down how to become more present, quiet the constant need to “go, go, go,” and train yourself to find more joy in the life you’re already living. ... Show More
17m 54s
Sep 4
The Psychology of Resilience
What if the discomfort you’re trying to avoid is actually the thing that could make you stronger? In this episode, I break down the psychology of resilience and show you how to stop treating fear as a warning, push just beyond your comfort zone, and train yourself to handle hard ... Show More
19m 37s
Aug 2017
Why You Keep Falling in Love With The Wrong Person | E113
Do you attract the wrong people? Do you keep having toxic relationships? If so, you're not alone.
You'd be surprised at how many people come to us for life coaching, breakup recovery, individual therapy, or dating coaching hoping to achieve one goal: Having a healthy relationshi ... Show More
36m 23s
May 2025
176. The Attachment Cycle Explained (Why We're Attracted to People Who End Up Hurting Us)
In this episode, I’m diving into why we keep getting drawn to the same types of partners, even when those relationships don't work out or we keep getting hurt. I’ll break down the psychology behind attraction, how our early experiences and attachment styles play a huge role, and ... Show More
33m 23s
Apr 2022
"I'm Always Attracted to the WRONG People!"
<p>How do we find the right person if we're always falling for the wrong one? It's a common problem, one that can make you feel doomed to always be in unsatisfying relationship cycles over and over again.</p><br><p>In this episode, Matt, Stephen and Jameson talk about why we feel ... Show More
57m 19s
Jan 2024
Why Did They Invest, Then Pull Away?! | Matt Monday
<p>It’s a dating mystery: Why would someone invest in dating you and then walk away? They take you on a romantic trip, buy you an amazing gift, or tell you they’re falling for you . . . right before breaking up with you? What were they thinking?! In today’s new episode, I share t ... Show More
9m 5s