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Apr 2023
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484 - Why do we attract unhealthy love?

CASE KENNY
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In this episode, I talk about why we find comfort in unhealthy relationships. I talk about one question to ask yourself to challenge your inclination to seek out or put up with chaotic love. My new book "That's Bold of You" is available now on Amazon! Text me: 312-584-4002 Instagram: @case.kenny 
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