In this episode, I talk about why we find comfort in unhealthy relationships. I talk about one question to ask yourself to challenge your inclination to seek out or put up with chaotic love.
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May 2025
Why We Chase the Wrong People and How to Stop
Today, John explores why people are drawn to unhealthy relationships and how to break the cycle. He emphasizes the role of upbringing, the importance of self-awareness, the need for a corrective love experience to build healthier connections, and more. Order John's new book, Brea ... Show More
15m 58s
Feb 2024
Why We Tolerate Difficult Relationships
In this episode, I talk about why each attachment style tolerates difficult or painful relationships, why we aren’t stuck to these ways of experiencing love, and tips on how to move beyond our limitations.
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22m 50s
Sep 2025
Sh*t You Wouldn’t Ask Your Therapist | Love Is Messy. Here’s The Truth.
In today’s episode, John Kim answers your most vulnerable questions about relationships - from surviving infidelity and messy breakups, to knowing when it’s time to try again (or walk away), to managing jealousy, triggers, and control. Raw, honest, and unfiltered — this is the co ... Show More
21m 53s
Apr 2025
why you crave chaos in love
<p>Why does love feel most real when it hurts? When the tension, the pull, the rupture are the only things that makes you feel alive? If you’ve ever found yourself confusing emotional chaos for connection, this one’s for you.</p><br><p>In this episode, we’re diving beneath the su ... Show More
1h 4m
May 2022
#8: Q&A: On All Things Love & Relationships
<p>In this week's Q&A episode, we're exploring a mixed bag of love & relationship questions. Topics include how to navigate conflict with a partner who won't engage, how to manage your anxiety when physically apart from your partner, why you might be attrac ... Show More
25m 2s
<p>Why do I feel like I am “in love” with someone that I know is not good for me?</p>
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