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Apr 2022
57m 20s

163: "I'm Always Attracted to the WRONG ...

MATTHEW HUSSEY
About this episode

How do we find the right person if we're always falling for the wrong one? It's a common problem, one that can make you feel doomed to always be in unsatisfying relationship cycles over and over again.

In this episode, Matt, Stephen and Jameson talk about why we feel this way towards certain people with negative traits and how we can heal so we align with the right kind of partner for us.

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