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Mar 2025
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CLOSURE IS NOT NEEDED TO MOVE ON - How t...

Mafe Anzures
About this episode

Closure is something we’ve been taught to seek after a relationship ends, a friendship falls apart, or a situation doesn’t go as planned.

We wait for an apology, an explanation, or a final conversation to give us the “permission” to move on. But what if closure isn’t actually necessary? What if waiting for it is only keeping you stuck?

In this video, we’re breaking the myth that closure is needed to heal. The truth is, you don’t need someone else to give you peace—you can create it within yourself. Letting go isn’t about getting answers from others; it’s about deciding that you deserve to move forward, even without them.

I’ll be sharing why closure is overrated, how to stop seeking it, and what you can do instead to fully heal and step into a new chapter of your life. If you’ve been holding on, waiting for the right words or the perfect ending—this is your sign to let go and find peace on your own terms.

You are capable of healing, growing, and thriving—without closure

With love, Mafe

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