This is another listener advice episode all about closure, or the lack of closure that often doesn't come after a break up. Someone obsessively seeking closure is one of the biggest reasons why you can't move forward after a break up. In this episode I go through why we don't get closure and how we can move on in SPITE of not getting closure. To find out whi ... Show More
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#341 How to Break Free From Repeating Patterns with Dr. Gillian O'Shea Brown
In today’s expert episode, I’m joined by Dr. Gillian O’Shea Brown, NYU professor, psychotherapist, and author of “Psyche’s Awakening: A Guide to Emotional and Somatic Healing Through the Wisdom of Greek Myth.” We dive into why we keep repeating the same relationship patterns (rom ... Show More
43m 33s
Sep 22
#340 Recognizing Your Traitor Within with Jessica Anne Pressler
In today's expert episode, I'm joined by psychotherapist and author Jessica Anne Pressler to discuss her new fiction novel, Your Traitor Within. We dive into the inspiration behind the book, why she chose storytelling to illuminate cycles of self-abandonment and toxic relationshi ... Show More
43m 7s
Sep 15
#339 Science-Backed Ways to Boost Self-Esteem with Dr. Marisa G Franco
In today’s expert episode I’m joined by Dr. Marisa G. Franco, psychologist, researcher, and bestselling author, to discuss her brand new book "Worth: The New Science of Self-Esteem and Secure Attachment." We dive deep into the real foundations of self-worth and self-esteem—why so ... Show More
42m 47s
Aug 2022
#20: How to Find Closure After a Break-Up
<p>In this week's episode, we're talking all things closure: what it is, why it's so elusive, and why certain people are more affected than others by an ending that lacks closure. I'll also share some tips on steps you can take if you're finding yourself ... Show More
21m 31s
Oct 2025
#211: The Hard Truth About Closure After a Break-up
When a relationship ends, it’s natural to crave closure. We want answers, explanations, or one last conversation that will tie everything up neatly and help us move on. But the reality is, closure rarely comes from someone else — it’s something we have to create for ourselves.In ... Show More
17m 42s
Sep 2022
S2: Break Down Bonus: Coworker Justin gives his best 'moving on' advice, talks when NOT to get closure, & reacts to S2E9
Do you need help moving on from an ex? Do you feel like you still need closure? Abby and Justin talk about why it's so hard to get over them (and tell you what to do about it). Plus they react to this week's main episode and share stories about families/friends ruining their rela ... Show More
16m 8s
Aug 2025
Ep. 301 - How do I get closure from my ex?
You keep waiting for your ex to give you the closure you need, an explanation, an apology, some sign that what you had mattered to them. In this episode, I'm revealing the twisted psychology behind why begging for closure actually pushes your ex further away, and the counterintui ... Show More
13m 16s
Sep 2024
Ep. 254 - The first step to getting over your ex
<p>Struggling with where to start in getting over your ex? This episode dives into the different starting points based on your unique situation. Whether you're longing for your ex back, overwhelmed by emotions, obsessing over them, or uncertain about your future, we've got you co ... Show More
16m 23s
Feb 2023
51: Listen if You’re Heartbroken - Breakups and Rejection, Having Love for Someone Who No Longer Deserves It and Moving On
If you just got your heartbroken or you're having a hard time getting over someone, listen to this episode. In today's episode I talk about:- Feeling broken after a breakup - Having love for someone who no longer deserves it - Letting go of people who aren't good for you - How to ... Show More
35m 46s
Jun 2024
HOW TO GET BACK OUT THERE AFTER A BREAKUP | BREAKUP SERIES
Todays episode is the last episode of this mini breakup series. On this episode we talk about moving on and how to do it without fear, getting back out there after heartbreak and how to do it properly. Feel gratitude instead of fear, set boundaries from the beginning, you will al ... Show More
18m 15s
Jul 2025
Ep. 299 - Why can't I get over my ex?
You've been doing all the "right things" to get over your ex. Therapy, journaling, staying busy, even no contact, but you're still waking up at 2 AM thinking about them, still checking their social media, still feeling like your whole life is completely over. You're not broken, a ... Show More
13m 41s