This is another listener advice episode all about closure, or the lack of closure that often doesn't come after a break up. Someone obsessively seeking closure is one of the biggest reasons why you can't move forward after a break up. In this episode I go through why we don't get closure and how we can move on in SPITE of not getting closure. To find out whi ... Show More
Nov 10
#347 Understanding Jealousy: Types, Triggers, and Tools with Ally Iseman
In today’s expert episode, I’m joined by internationally certified relationship coach and founder of Passport 2 Pleasure, Ally Iseman, for a deep dive into one of the trickiest emotions to navigate after a breakup: jealousy. We break down the real difference between jealousy and ... Show More
46m 32s
Nov 3
#346 How to Become Real Love Ready with Robin Ducharme
In today's expert episode, I'm sitting down with Robin Ducharme, founder of Real Love Ready and author of the new book by the same name. We dive deep into the concept of "relational literacy," breaking down the myths we carry about love and heartbreak. Robin shares her moving per ... Show More
46m 23s
Oct 27
#345 EMDR Therapy Explained with Jane Garnett
In today’s expert episode, I’m joined by Oxford-educated, LA-based psychotherapist and author Jane Garnett to dive deep into the healing power of EMDR therapy, especially for anyone navigating the pain of heartbreak or feeling stuck after a breakup. We explore why EMDR works when ... Show More
46m 35s
Aug 2022
#20: How to Find Closure After a Break-Up
<p>In this week's episode, we're talking all things closure: what it is, why it's so elusive, and why certain people are more affected than others by an ending that lacks closure. I'll also share some tips on steps you can take if you're finding yourself ... Show More
21m 31s
Oct 2025
#211: The Hard Truth About Closure After a Break-up
When a relationship ends, it’s natural to crave closure. We want answers, explanations, or one last conversation that will tie everything up neatly and help us move on. But the reality is, closure rarely comes from someone else — it’s something we have to create for ourselves.In ... Show More
17m 42s
Sep 2022
S2: Break Down Bonus: Coworker Justin gives his best 'moving on' advice, talks when NOT to get closure, & reacts to S2E9
Do you need help moving on from an ex? Do you feel like you still need closure? Abby and Justin talk about why it's so hard to get over them (and tell you what to do about it). Plus they react to this week's main episode and share stories about families/friends ruining their rela ... Show More
16m 8s
Aug 2025
Ep. 301 - How do I get closure from my ex?
You keep waiting for your ex to give you the closure you need, an explanation, an apology, some sign that what you had mattered to them. In this episode, I'm revealing the twisted psychology behind why begging for closure actually pushes your ex further away, and the counterintui ... Show More
13m 16s
Sep 2024
Ep. 254 - The first step to getting over your ex
<p>Struggling with where to start in getting over your ex? This episode dives into the different starting points based on your unique situation. Whether you're longing for your ex back, overwhelmed by emotions, obsessing over them, or uncertain about your future, we've got you co ... Show More
16m 23s
Feb 2023
51: Listen if You’re Heartbroken - Breakups and Rejection, Having Love for Someone Who No Longer Deserves It and Moving On
If you just got your heartbroken or you're having a hard time getting over someone, listen to this episode. In today's episode I talk about:- Feeling broken after a breakup - Having love for someone who no longer deserves it - Letting go of people who aren't good for you - How to ... Show More
35m 46s
Jun 2024
HOW TO GET BACK OUT THERE AFTER A BREAKUP | BREAKUP SERIES
Todays episode is the last episode of this mini breakup series. On this episode we talk about moving on and how to do it without fear, getting back out there after heartbreak and how to do it properly. Feel gratitude instead of fear, set boundaries from the beginning, you will al ... Show More
18m 15s
Jul 2025
Ep. 299 - Why can't I get over my ex?
You've been doing all the "right things" to get over your ex. Therapy, journaling, staying busy, even no contact, but you're still waking up at 2 AM thinking about them, still checking their social media, still feeling like your whole life is completely over. You're not broken, a ... Show More
13m 41s