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Mar 2025
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Ep. 280 - The real reason you’re still s...

Breakup Coach Dorothy
About this episode

You're stuck on your ex, and you don’t know why. You’ve tried everything—cutting contact, waiting for time to heal, distracting yourself—but nothing is working. What if the reason you can’t move on isn’t what you think it is? In this episode, we’re uncovering the hidden force keeping you emotionally tied to your ex and why the usual breakup advice isn’t helping. If you’ve ever wondered, Why am I still not over this?—you need to hear this.

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