Ever feel like your ex is living rent-free in your head, even though the relationship is so over? Whether it’s been weeks, months, or (gulp) years since your breakup, if you’re wondering “Why do I keep thinking about my ex?” and you’re still caught in a loop of thoughts, memories, or even fantasies about them, I made this episode just for you.
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Apr 16
Is Your Secure Bond Missing? How to Build Trust and Feel Safe | Dr. Amir Levine | Happiness | E516
If you want a secure bond but keep feeling activated or shut down, you’re not doomed. A secure bond gets built through emotional intimacy, trust, and safe relationships, not willpower. Most people hear about attachment styles and think, “Okay… that’s me.” But insight alone doesn’ ... Show More
1h 9m
Apr 13
Parenting Triggers: How to Handle Your Stuff So Your Kids Don’t Have To | Happiness | E515
If parenting is bringing out anger you don’t recognize… you’re not alone. And if anxiety is riding shotgun in your nervous system, same. Today we’re talking emotions, conflict, and repair so you can stay safe and secure even when things get messy. In this conversation, I’m joined ... Show More
1h 5m
Apr 9
How to Fix Communication Problems: Repair Conflict Fast for Trust | Mika Ross | E514
If you have communication problems, you’re probably not fighting about what you think you’re fighting about. And that’s good news. Because the real issue is usually conflict & repair, not the “topic” and with clear boundaries, you can start to repair trust instead of repeating th ... Show More
1h 5m
Aug 2023
112. Your ex moved on - now what?
<p>It’s something we all inevitably experience in our dating lives, the pain of a break-up, saying goodbye to someone we loved and then, one day, the realisation that your ex has moved on and is with someone new. It can be incredibly confronting and painful, so today we're going ... Show More
42m 29s
Apr 2016
Get Your Ex Back – OR Get Over Him for Good
<p>How many hours, days, months – dare I say it – <em>years </em>have you wasted trying to make things work out with the wrong men? How much precious time in this beautiful life has been squandered pining over an ex? Life is short and, sadly, that is time you can never get back. ... Show More
5m 22s
May 2023
How To Stop Obsessing Over Your Ex's Life After A Breakup
<p>Have you found yourself checking up on an ex on social media after a break up? Maybe you even found yourself jealous upon finding out they were doing well, or found someone else, or had a success that you don't get to be a part of. In this solo episode, Matt discusses what it ... Show More
27m 35s
Sep 2020
Is Your Ex Breadcrumbing You?
<p>During no contact, there's a very good chance you'll hear from your ex at some point. However, it may not necessarily be to get back together, but instead for many other reasons. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the many reasons why your ex may breadcrumb you during ... Show More
12m 8s