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Feb 2025
39m 20s

How To Heal From a Breakup

GIRL CODE
About this episode

Stop stalking their social media (we're onto you) and lets turn this breakup into the best thing to happen to you. Because if you’re re-reading texts, thinking about what your future could have looked like or convincing yourself that “maybe they will change,” it’s time for some tough love and to turn your focus to growth so you can get back to living your best life.

In this episode, we’re breaking down:

  • The reason why breakups hurt (and the stats to back it up)
  • What NOT to do after a breakup
  • The steps you need to take to heal
  • How to have the ultimate post breakup glow up
  • Why a breakup is actually an amazing opportunity & how to reframe your mindset
  • No contact & why it is key
  • How to start romanticising your own life (and stop worrying about them)


Because the best revenge is being your best self.

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