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Sep 2024
16m 23s

Ep. 254 - The first step to getting over...

Breakup Coach Dorothy
About this episode

Struggling with where to start in getting over your ex? This episode dives into the different starting points based on your unique situation. Whether you’re longing for your ex back, overwhelmed by emotions, obsessing over them, or uncertain about your future, we've got you covered. I break down the essential steps: decide to move on, commit to your healing journey, and practice becoming the person who’s already over their ex. Additionally, I provide specific tools tailored to where you're starting from. Join me for practical advice and actionable steps to help you navigate your breakup and start building a brighter future. Click to listen and take the first step toward reclaiming your life.

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