If you’ve ever found yourself wondering “where did all my friends go?” or felt like making friends as an adult is impossible, you are not alone.
In today’s episode, Mel is breaking down the surprising reasons why friendship feels so much harder in adulthood—and, more importantly, how to change that.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
The three essential pi ... Show More
Nov 17
How to Deal with Difficult People & Not Get Stressed Out
<p>Today, you are getting research-backed strategies for handling difficult people. </p><p>If you’re done being dismissed, talked over, or made to feel small, this episode will help you show up with power - and walk away with peace.</p><p>Whether it’s family, coworkers, friends, ... Show More
1h 14m
Nov 13
The Exact Words You Need to Hear Today If It Feels Like Nothing’s Working
<p>Some days, the world feels like too much. </p><p>The news, the stress, the noise. </p><p>You start to wonder if you’ll ever feel right again. </p><p>Then, out of nowhere, something lands in your lap that reminds you of what really matters. </p><p>That’s what today’s conversati ... Show More
1h 19m
Jan 2025
S3 EP2 | Why Some Friendships Naturally Fade | The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | The Messy Podcast
Welcome to Season 3, Episode 2 of The Messy Podcast!
In this episode, we explore the natural evolution of adult friendships and how The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins provides valuable insights into why some friendships fade over time. As we transition into adulthood, friendships ... Show More
17m 16s
Jan 2025
S3 EP1 | The Truth No One Told You about Adult Friendship | The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | The Messy Podcast
Welcome to Season 3, Episode 1 of The Messy Podcast!
In today’s episode, we dive into the complexities of adult friendships, a topic that many people struggle with. With insights from The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins, we explore how to nurture and strengthen your relationships. ... Show More
13m 4s
Mar 2025
The Real Reason You Struggle to Connect with Others (It’s NOT What You Think)
Have you ever felt unseen, unheard, or like deep connections just don’t come easily? You’re not alone—and the reason might not be what you think. In this episode, Giuliano Gonzalez dives into the hidden mindset blocks, social habits, and confidence shifts that can transform the w ... Show More
44m 3s
Dec 2024
How to Make Adult Friendships & Ditch "Default" Ones
<p>Adult friendships, why are they so hard? Are we looking at it the wrong way? Is it us, or is it that we are surrounded by toxic people? And what about those "default" friends that have been around for so long but don't really align with us anymore, how do we navigate those?</p ... Show More
43m 54s
Mar 2025
More Happier: Friendship Roundtable: How to Make, Keep & Deepen Friendships
First in a new discussion series on happiness: Friendship Roundtable. Joining me is a longtime friend, Laurie Santos, and a new friend, Reshma Saujani. We talk about how our friendships have changed over time, how to handle conflict, and how to make new friends in adulthood. Yale ... Show More
37m 2s
Jun 2025
211 - How to Make New Friends (At Any Age, In Any City)
If you’ve ever told yourself, “Making friends is hard,” or “It only gets harder the older you get” — I’m here to lovingly call BS. I made a new friend recently (love you, Andrea!), and this is not a new thing for me. In today’s solo episode, I jam on what I’ve learned from living ... Show More
34m 17s
Apr 2024
WHY are Friendships So Hard? | Making New Friends, Growing Apart, & Being a Better Friend
In today's episode, Jeanine talks ALL about friendship... Why are friendships so hard and the solution to it. We hope you enjoy this! This episode covers: - Loneliness - How to be a better friend - Growing apart - Conflict - Friends for different seasons ORDER MY BOOK where I tal ... Show More
1h 2m