If you’ve ever found yourself wondering “where did all my friends go?” or felt like making friends as an adult is impossible, you are not alone.
In today’s episode, Mel is breaking down the surprising reasons why friendship feels so much harder in adulthood—and, more importantly, how to change that.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
The three essential pi ... Show More
Jan 29
The Words You Need to Hear Today: The Power of Hope
Today, Mel has one of the most powerful conversations you’ll ever hear on this podcast. If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, discouraged, exhausted, or numb by what you’re seeing in the news, today’s episode is for you. When life feels uncertain, it’s easy to start pulling back, n ... Show More
1h 34m
Jan 26
The Most Eye Opening Conversation of Your Life
In today’s episode, you’re going to hear a conversation that will help you find meaning again - especially if you’ve been feeling lost, stuck, stretched thin, or quietly wondering, “Does any of this even matter?” Joining Mel is Ocean Vuong - one of the most acclaimed writers of o ... Show More
1h 28m
Jan 22
The Science of Self Control: Find Motivation, Build Willpower, and Increase Your Focus
In today’s episode, you’ll learn how to get motivated, even when you don’t feel like it. If you feel unmotivated, scatter brained, or exhausted… If you keep reaching for your phone, wine, or the remote even when you want to stop… If you’re frustrated with yourself for lacking dis ... Show More
1h 22m
Jan 2025
S3 EP2 | Why Some Friendships Naturally Fade | The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | The Messy Podcast
Welcome to Season 3, Episode 2 of The Messy Podcast!
In this episode, we explore the natural evolution of adult friendships and how The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins provides valuable insights into why some friendships fade over time. As we transition into adulthood, friendships ... Show More
17m 16s
Jan 2025
S3 EP1 | The Truth No One Told You about Adult Friendship | The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | The Messy Podcast
Welcome to Season 3, Episode 1 of The Messy Podcast!
In today’s episode, we dive into the complexities of adult friendships, a topic that many people struggle with. With insights from The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins, we explore how to nurture and strengthen your relationships. ... Show More
13m 4s
Mar 2025
The Real Reason You Struggle to Connect with Others (It’s NOT What You Think)
Have you ever felt unseen, unheard, or like deep connections just don’t come easily? You’re not alone—and the reason might not be what you think. In this episode, Giuliano Gonzalez dives into the hidden mindset blocks, social habits, and confidence shifts that can transform the w ... Show More
44m 3s
Dec 2024
How to Make Adult Friendships & Ditch "Default" Ones
<p>Adult friendships, why are they so hard? Are we looking at it the wrong way? Is it us, or is it that we are surrounded by toxic people? And what about those "default" friends that have been around for so long but don't really align with us anymore, how do we navigate those?</p ... Show More
43m 54s
Mar 2025
More Happier: Friendship Roundtable: How to Make, Keep & Deepen Friendships
First in a new discussion series on happiness: Friendship Roundtable. Joining me is a longtime friend, Laurie Santos, and a new friend, Reshma Saujani. We talk about how our friendships have changed over time, how to handle conflict, and how to make new friends in adulthood. Yale ... Show More
37m 2s
Jun 2025
211 - How to Make New Friends (At Any Age, In Any City)
If you’ve ever told yourself, “Making friends is hard,” or “It only gets harder the older you get” — I’m here to lovingly call BS. I made a new friend recently (love you, Andrea!), and this is not a new thing for me. In today’s solo episode, I jam on what I’ve learned from living ... Show More
34m 17s
Apr 2024
WHY are Friendships So Hard? | Making New Friends, Growing Apart, & Being a Better Friend
In today's episode, Jeanine talks ALL about friendship... Why are friendships so hard and the solution to it. We hope you enjoy this! This episode covers: - Loneliness - How to be a better friend - Growing apart - Conflict - Friends for different seasons ORDER MY BOOK where I tal ... Show More
1h 2m