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Dec 2024
44m 51s

How to Make Adult Friendships & Ditch "D...

ERIKA DE PELLEGRIN
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Adult friendships, why are they so hard? Are we looking at it the wrong way? Is it us, or is it that we are surrounded by toxic people? And what about those "default" friends that have been around for so long but don't really align with us anymore, how do we navigate those? I had the same questions! So today I invited two friends of mine, Nimi & Rhea to disc ... Show More
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