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Apr 2024
47m 20s

Why It's So Hard to Make Friends as an A...

MARK MANSON
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Making friends is hard, and unfortunately, as you get older, it gets harder. In this episode, we look at research behind friendships, plus the complicating factors people experience in making new friends as they get older. And for anyone struggling with their social lives, we share practical tips on how to meet and keep new friends. Enjoy and, good luck out ... Show More
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