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Dec 2024
46m 47s

Don’t Show Your Cards Right Away

Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar
About this episode

Today’s solo episode is all about keeping your cards close to your chest. We’ll discuss three things you need to start doing in order to stop sharing too much too soon, the most important rules to follow when dating, my thoughts on Wicked, and I share a few stories of when I forgot to keep my cool in my early days with Steven.


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