#160. This month’s ASK P covers some ground, from romantic relationships to friendships. We’re making a case for loneliness, learning to communicate, discussing the phases of romantic relationships, and more. As always, I’m doing my best to offer guidance, but really its just an excuse to be NOSEY. Thanks for your submissions always and don’t forget to leave ... Show More
Jan 29
Caring About the World (Without It Ruining Your Life)
#231. This episode is a candid life update and a values-driven conversation about navigating the current U.S. political climate as a woman who cares deeply but needs to take small moments for herself. We talk about boundaries, nervous system care, and how to stay clear-headed, in ... Show More
45m 9s
Jan 23
ASK P: Staying Motivated in Goal Setting, Maintaining Independence in a Relationship, Tough Family Dynamics & More
#230. In this Ask P episode of Note to Self, Payton answers listener questions about navigating life’s in-between seasons — from fresh breakups and New Year resets to long-term relationship “ebbs,” family dynamics, friendship loss, and early dating red flags. This episode explore ... Show More
46m 34s
Jan 15
How to Get Out of Your Head and Into Your Body
#229. If you’ve done the work but still don’t feel fully present, this episode is for you. We break down why getting out of your head isn’t a mindset shift but a nervous system one, and how embodiment creates calm, confidence, and connection. Think of this as a gentle invitation ... Show More
43m 44s
Oct 2025
S16 Ep277: Are Your PREFERENCES Keeping You Single?
Today we're diving into the realities of compromise in relationships as Kait and JJ unpack why holding too tightly to our preferences—like location, routines, or lifestyle—can make dating harder, especially as we get older, and share honest stories of what healthy (and not-so-hea ... Show More
43m 59s
Oct 2025
AM I A GOOD FRIEND? Ft. Sazan
<p>This week, Jon and Kristin sit down with their dear friend Sazan Hendrix to dive into all things friendship—what it takes to build and nurture healthy community as adults. Don’t miss this heartfelt conversation, and be sure to check out Sazan’s brand-new podcast, <em>I’m ... Show More
1 h
Jun 2025
Ep.160 Alone Time in a Relationship
Sometimes the best thing you can do for your relationship is to step away for just a little bit. In this episode, we dive into why carving out solo time—even from your partner—is not just okay, but essential. What may seem like distance actually creates room to reset, recharge, a ... Show More
41m 24s
Oct 2025
Tianna Robillard Opens Up Like Never Before .. Relationship Anxiety, Heartbreaks, Rut Routines & Knowing Your Worth
<p>This week's episode Kenzie sits down with influencer Tianna Robillard to talk about the other side of leaving, relationship anxiety, knowing your worth, rut routines, her childhood & so many other things for the first time ever. Hope you enjoy!! <3 </p><p ... Show More
1h 5m