Have you ever found yourself perpetually in relationships that feel "close, but not quite"? Do you yearn for a meaningful connection yet struggle to make it past the initial stages of getting close to someone? Perhaps you've been hurt before, and now, the walls you've built to protect yourself seem insurmountable. If these scenarios resonate with you, you ma ... Show More
Jun 8
Tears, Trust, and Triumph: Tracy's Path from Divorce to Deep Love
In this special client interview, Gary sits down with Tracy, who went from crying on a consultation call to finding her "above average Joe" just weeks after her lowest moment. After 22 years in a dysfunctional marriage, Tracy learned to trust herself and build healthy boundaries. ... Show More
44m 59s
Jun 2025
Episode 5 - Why do you get attached so quickly? Psychology answers
In this episode, we explore the mystery of attachment in romantic relationships: Why do some of us fall in love quickly, while others run away or prefer safety?
We learn about the three attachment styles: anxious, avoidant, and secure, with real-life stories from people who have ... Show More
19m 6s
Jul 2025
#196: How & Why We Self-Abandon in Relationships
If you deeply fear abandonment, there’s a good chance you’ve also been abandoning yourself in quiet, subtle, and painful ways.In today’s episode, we’re exploring how fear of abandonment often leads to patterns of self-abandonment — especially for those with anxious attachment. We ... Show More
19m 8s
Sep 2025
EP 578: 3 Lies You Tell Yourself When You're Dating Someone with Avoidant Attachment Style
Dating someone with an avoidant attachment style can leave you second-guessing yourself, waiting for scraps of connection, and telling yourself stories that keep you in pain. I’ve been there, and I know how easy it is to cling to beliefs that feel comforting in the moment but ult ... Show More
48m 32s
