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Apr 2021
31m 6s

#7: Turned OFF by "Niceness" and Sabotag...

Gloria Zhang, MA
About this episode

Do you feel TURNED OFF (or even disgusted) by healthy, secure partners? Or find yourself pushing away people who treat you well? You might have an Avoidant or Disorganized Attachment Style, but it's possible to change!

*Why Do Some Women Easily Attract Extraordinary Relationships... And Others Struggle?*
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Episode Highlights:

  • I answer 2 questions from our listeners, and explain what Avoidant/Disorganized Styles are really about
  • Are you unconsciously using "Deactivation Strategies" and sabotaging relationships?
  • How to tell if it's your INTUITION vs. an old pattern of pushing people away.
  • Call to Action: "Stories OVER Symptoms" as one of Gloria's principles of Inner Child healing

Hey bestie! My mission is to help High-Achievers and people-pleasers heal their Inner Child and find healthy love, especially those who desire an extraordinary connection but often struggle in their relationships.Ā 

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