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Dec 2024
11m 6s

Why Punishments Don't Work — And What To...

Dr. Cathryn
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Tired of time-outs and tantrums? In this episode, I’ll share why punishment doesn’t work and what to do instead so that you can handle tricky moments with calm and confidence. Why Punishment Fails: It stops behavior in the moment but hurts self-esteem and creates fear. What Toddlers Need: They’re not being “bad”—they’re still learning to manage big feeli ... Show More
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