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Sep 22
29m 21s

The Science of How Discipline and Punish...

CINDY HOVINGTON, PH.D.
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Send us a text Parents, this one is big. Today we’re breaking down punishment vs discipline, what science says, how it impacts your child’s brain, and why so many of us feel stuck in the cycle of punishing even when we don’t want to. If you’ve ever thought, “I don’t want to yell, spank, or threaten…but it just slips out when I’m overwhelmed,” you are not alo ... Show More
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