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Sep 2
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Why Your Baby or Toddler’s Brain Needs T...

Erin Hyer
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Your child’s brain isn’t finished at birth — it’s built day by day, through you.

Whether you have a baby or a toddler, this episode will help you understand the “why” behind sleep struggles, sensitivities, and attention challenges — and remind you that brains are built through responsive parenting.

In this episode of Talking Toddlers, Erin Hyer, speech-language pathologist with 35+ years of experience, explains why the first years matter so much for brain development. 

We’ll cover:

  • What exterogestation (the “second womb”) really means


  • How 100 billion neurons become connected through everyday experiences


  • Why talking is an “orchestra” of attention, motor skills, and social connection


  • The myths that hold parents back (“he’ll catch up,” “kids develop at their own pace”)


  • What you can do today to build your child’s foundation for learning and thriving

Action Step: Turn one daily routine (bath time, meals, diapering) into a rich language and connection moment.

👣 Next Step: Ready for more? Start small with The Tiny Challenge — a personalized way to create a learning-rich lifestyle for your child. Link in the show notes.

CLICK HERE NOW - Tiny Challenge for Moms 

✨ If this episode gave you something to think about, share it with a mom who needs encouragement today. 

And I’d love to hear from you — email me your thoughts or questions.

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Podcast Disclaimer:
This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always consult your pediatrician or a qualified health provider with questions about your child’s development or health. The views shared are based on Erin Hyer’s professional experience and are intended to support informed parenting, not to replace individual consultation or care. Every child and family is unique—please use your discretion and consult trusted professionals when making decisions for your child.

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