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Nov 2024
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The First Steps to Find Love with Matthe...

SIMON SINEK
About this episode

Finding love is a journey. We might take some wrong turns along the way.

Matthew Hussey helps people find love, and sometimes, redefine their relationship with love. Matthew is a dating coach who balances practical advice about the art of attraction with the importance of centering our own sense of self in our search for love. Starting as a teenager and working primarily with women, he’s helped thousands of people find romance and create relationships built on values which feel right for them. 

I sat down with Matthew to ask him everything he’s learned about love after decades as a dating coach. He shares with me the most common mistakes people make when looking for a partner, what we ought to be looking for, and why our own happiness is ultimately our own responsibility, not anyone else’s.

This…is A Bit of Optimism.

To learn more about Matthew and his work, check out:

his new book, Love Life

his YouTube channel 

matthewhussey.com



 

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