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Nov 2021
18m 31s

Looking For Love in All the Wrong Places

Lisa A. Romano
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If you are looking for love outside of you, hoping a relationship will help make you feel good enough, lovable, and worthy, you will inevitably look for love in all the wrong places. If you wish to truly find love, you must know yourself. If you do not know yourself, you will NOT reveal the real you to others. Instead, you may take on unrealistic expectations or maybe even become a chameleon in the hopes that someone might love you in return. In this episode, Lisa A Romano the Breakthrough Life Coach and bestselling author breaks it all down! Online Codependency Recovery Program https://www.lisaaromano.com/12-wbcp YouTube Channel http://bit.ly/32zOvUh Instagram @lisaaromano Contact support.coach@lisaaromano.co Facebook Support Group https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultchildrenofalcoholics/

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