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Feb 2025
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What do you think is the biggest dating mistake people make?

Have you ever chased someone who wasn’t right for you?

Today, in this special compilation episode, we explore all things love - how people navigate it, where they go wrong, and how they can cultivate deeper, more meaningful connections. Through a collection of thought-provoking conversations, Jay Shetty and his guests offer insight and practical advice to help listeners build healthier relationships.

Each guest shares their unique approach to manifesting genuine love, highlighting the importance of being present in relationships, breaking free from unhealthy patterns, and shifting focus from seeking external validation to building self-worth. Heartbreak is reframed as a powerful opportunity for growth, with the reminder that love is not something to chase, but something to nurture within, allowing the right connections to come naturally.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Know if Someone Is Wasting Your Time

How to Do the Work to Prepare for a Relationship 

How to Get Out of the Cycle of Seeking External Validation

How to Reframe Settling as a Positive Choice in Love    

How to Turn Pain into a Source of Growth and Learning

The path to finding love is not easy, but every step matters. By learning from your past, committing to personal growth, and approaching love with an open heart, you create the space for deeper, more fulfilling connections. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty.

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What We Discuss: 

00:00 Intro 

00:45 How to Know if Someone is Wasting Your Time

03:29 Is It Real Connection or Just Chemistry?

06:26 Am I Behind in Love?

08:59 Why Is Developing Self Awareness Difficult?

13:19 How to Attract the Right Relationship

15:55 How to Manifest Love

17:56 Have You Found the Right Person?

24:43 Letting Go Might Be an Answer

28:58 How to Love Fully Without Losing Yourself

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