Someone says something that hits a nerve, and before you know it, you’re on the defensive.
Defensiveness is a normal reaction. But it can quickly escalate arguments and make things worse. Good news: there’s a better way to handle it.
In this episode, I’m sharing 3 ways to stay calm and not get defensive—no matter how heated the conversation gets.
These s ... Show More
Feb 2025
How To Handle Difficult People & Take Back Your Peace and Power
<p>Today, you are getting research-backed strategies for handling difficult people. </p><p>In this episode, you will dive deep into how to respond to disrespect, gaslighting, and exactly what to say when someone tries to brush off their behavior with, “I was just joking.” </p><p> ... Show More
50m 21s
Apr 2025
How To Handle Different Paces In Emotional Growth
When emotional growth happens at different paces in a relationship, it can create disconnection and frustration. This episode explores how partners can navigate this dynamic by cultivating curiosity, avoiding shame-based interpretations, and validating the complexity of individua ... Show More
47m 37s
Jan 2025
#896 - 3.25M Q&A - Marriage Plans, Beautiful Women & Chris Bumstead
I hit 3.25 million Subscribers on YouTube!!
To celebrate, I asked for questions from YouTube, Twitter and Instagram, so here’s another 90ish minutes of me trying to answer as many as possible.
Expect to learn my thoughts on the Fin vs The Internet episode, what my favorite band I ... Show More
1h 41m