You’re doing “the talk wrong and I’ll help you fix it. First, think - an avoidant brain is not a secure brain. You can’t talk to it like it’s an emotionally healthy brain. We think we have to soft talk an avoidant but they are really looking at you thinking - “ I got this exactly where I want it.” I spoke kindly and softy for decades and that got me nothing ... Show More
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Stuck in a Situationship? How Your Attachment Style Makes Breakups So Hard
<p>She thought everything was fine. Then, he dropped a bombshell/ “I'm not sure I'm in love with you anymore.”</p><p>Trying to be understanding, she gave him an easy out. She said, “It's okay if we need to break up.”</p><p>But he wouldn't take it. He was confu ... Show More
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Jun 2024
How do I know what support I need? | ep.221
In this episode of Ask Kati Anything, your mental health podcast, licensed therapist Kati Morton explains what support a therapist can offer and how to know what we need from them. She also talks about chronic suicidality, dealing with frustration and anger, and why we can feel w ... Show More
50m 37s
Sep 2024
"How do I know what's really me versus what's my mental illness?"
This week licensed therapist Kati Morton talks about distinguishing between our core personality and trauma response, how to figure out what our identity is without our mental illness, and dealing with SA online. She then explains how we can know if we are being lazy, how to ask ... Show More
43m 41s
Aug 2024
224. 5 ways to support someone with their mental health
Loving someone who struggles with their mental health can be devastating. You want to do all you can to help, but no one has ever taught you how or what exactly you should say, how you can help, the right questions to ask. In today's episode we break down the biggest pieces of ad ... Show More
37m 23s
Mar 2021
123 | Understanding the UNCONSCIOUS MIND
<p>On this podcast episode, I talk about the many qualities of the unconscious and why you must work with it to develop yourself. The unconscious mind regulates our behaviours, stores repressed emotional issues, activates the anxiety response, and much more. I go into these qual ... Show More
21m 42s