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Nov 2024
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Is your partner a walking red flag? Ask ...

LEXI HIDALGO
About this episode

If you're looking for a man instead of a boy, what questions should you ask yourself? I could talk about this topic F O R E V E R. Why? Because I've dated all the bad ones. So, here are some questions you should ask yourself when you start a new relationship with a partner. In this episode, we'll talk about:

  • Why it matters where and how you met
  • Why it matters who their friends are
  • Why it matters how they treat their family
  • Asking if your morals align (yes, it even matters if you vote similarly)
  • And, pretty basic stuff but, do they respect you?!


With love, Lexi

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