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Apr 2024
15m 20s

If You've Been Cheated On, Ask Yourself ...

The Angry Therapist
About this episode
In this episode, John talks about the challenges people face when they stay in a relationship after infidelity. He encourages people who are in this situation to ask themselves a very important question: why are you staying in this relationship? Especially when there hasn't been any growth, or change on the other person's end. Follow John on Instagram HERE ... Show More
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