Aug 11

855 Being Nice to Avoid Conflict Isn't Nice, It's Controlling - Here's Why (714 Rerun)

Are you a nice person? Do you think it's possible to be too nice? Or that wanting to be nice is an excuse some high-functioning codependents hide behind to avoid conflict? In my personal and professional experience, it is possible to be too nice, and it's not great for your relat ... Show More

22m 21s

Aug 5

853 5 Signs your emotional boundaries need work (341 Rerun)

Do you ever feel responsible for the feelings of others? Do you overgive and overfunction? Do you suffer from chronic indecision? If any of those things resonate, today's episode is for you. I am going to share with you five signs that your emotional boundaries need help. Read th ... Show More

19m 38s

Jul 21

849 Spot Emotional Manipulation (313 Rerun)

Have you ever been in an argument with someone and before the end of the argument, even though they have done something quite egregious, you find yourself apologizing? Have you ever been in a heated exchange with someone and they straight up deny the thing you know they did? This ... Show More

19m 55s

Mar 2020

Ep. 23 - Should I stay or should I go

Should I leave the relationship or should I stay? Many individuals come to me confused, doubtful, and full of fear trying to make a decision because they think they'll feel better either with or without this other human. What if I told you, you could make this decis ... Show More

15m 46s

Aug 2022

#19: Should I Stay or Should I Go?

In this episode, we're diving into the challenging topic of how to know whether and when to walk away from a relationship that isn't working. I offer you five guiding questions that will lead you to greater clarity, insight and awareness in making the decision of whe ... Show More

15m 33s

Apr 2024

should you leave them? advice session

welcome back to my advice session, where i give you advice about various dilemmas that you’ve sent me on instagram. today i’ve gathered various dilemmas that you’re all experiencing in regards to whether or not you should leave your partner. i empathize with this because it's one ... Show More

32m 29s

Sep 2023

If You Love Them, But They Won't Change... | Rewind

Should I leave or try to fix this relationship? Not a day goes by that someone doesn’t ask me this question in one form or another. Why? Because few things in life involve more gut-wrenching second-guessing than deciding when to quit a relationship. With heightened e ... Show More

13m 23s

Feb 2024

#57 - "Do I Stay, or Do I Go?"

“Do I stay or go?” “How do I know if a relationship is worth saving?” These are not-so-simple questions to answer, and can cause a lot of discomfort because of the uncertainty they drum up.    <span style="font-wei ... Show More

37m 55s

Jul 2024

Relational Ambivalence: Should I Stay or Should I Go? (Part One) (Re-release)

On today's episode, Dr. Alexandra explores the complicated question that many of us have faced at some point in our lives: Should I stay in this relationship, or should I leave? If you're unsure of what the wisest path forward is, and you're hoping to proceed with compassion f ... Show More

38m 46s

Aug 2018

Should You Break Up Or Stay Together? | E136

Break up or stay together? Who hasn't wondered the same, during a seriously difficult time in their relationship? Or, entertained an even bigger question: Should you try to save a relationship? How hard should you work? Especially a relationship that has been feeling really hard ... Show More

1h 26m

Sep 2016

124 SP Should I Stay or Should I Go? How to Make Tough Decisions

We’ve all been in situations where the choice is anything but clear. How do you know when to keep on keepin’ on? Or wave the white flag of surrender? This week on the Savvy Psychologist, Dr. Ellen Hendriksen offers 6 tips to help you decide when to stay and when to go. Read the f ... Show More

7m 56s

Jul 2023

Ep. 197 - When to leave a relationship

Have you ever wondered when it's time to leave vs when it's time to keep working on yourself while staying? Today, we delve into the complex question of when it's time to leave a relationship versus when to keep working on yourself while staying. It's a dilemma that ... Show More

20m 50s

281 Should You Leave? (Decision Guide In...