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Nov 2024
1h 12m

How to Let Go of What You Can’t Control ...

Mel Robbins
About this episode

If you feel a sense of overwhelm, dread, or uncertainty right now, you need to hear this episode.

Right now, so many things are out of your control – whether it’s global events, elections, a health diagnosis, or news you’re waiting on.

In today’s deeply personal episode, Mel is sharing her best tools to deal with overthinking and negative thoughts. 

Your worries are stealing the joy and peace you deserve. 

And by the time you finish listening, you’ll feel more calm, grounded, and ready to handle whatever challenge comes your way.

For more resources, including links to the studies mentioned in the episode, click here for the podcast episode page. 

What should you listen to next? Check out this episode about a powerful tool you can use to start every morning strong, no matter what is happening around you: Start Strong: Do This Every Morning to Get Out of Bed, Beat Anxiety, and Feel Incredible All Day

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