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Oct 2024
28m 18s

your insecurities are not your identity

Lily Rakow
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Your body is a temple, fearfully and wonderfully made. But sometimes, it’s hard to believe that. What happens when your main focus becomes all the things you wish you could change about yourself? In this episode, Lily dives into the concept of "your insecurities are not your identity", and explains how to shift the focus, initiate healing, and cultivate a self-love mindset. 


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