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Oct 2024
37m 57s

237. The psychology of shame

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Shame follows us everywhere. So many of us are bound by shame about our past, our mistakes, our identity, our looks, our decisions and choices. This can make living a meaningful and fulfilling life incredibly difficult when you have your own personal, shame bully following you everywhere. In todays episode we learn: 

  • How shame gets implanted in us
  • The links between shame and trauma 
  • Shame vs. guilt
  • How shame manifests in hidden ways 
  • What a life without shame could look like?
  • How to release shame by communicating with your inner child 
  • How to shut down shame spirals 
  • My own personal story of body shaming 

Listen now! I hope this releases you from the heavy burden of shame.

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