In this Unfiltered, our anonymous guest shares her journey through a confusing relationship that began as a friendship and turned toxic. Despite emotional attachment and unclear boundaries, the relationship was marked by lies, invalidated feelings, and constant back-and-forth. After years of trying to move on, a pivotal moment led her to finally break free a ... Show More
Yesterday
Am I Settling or Just Being Realistic?
In this solo episode, I get vulnerable about a big life change I’m going through and what it’s teaching me about growth, and timing. I break down two listener scenarios: one from someone in a long-term relationship wondering if they’re settling because the spark feels missing, an ... Show More
47m 2s
Oct 6
Flying to Italy & a Listener’s Emotional Cheating Confession
Live from Italy, Jake and I are recapping the Jewish holidays, what stuck with us from the rabbi’s sermon, and what it was like hosting a holiday for the first time. We’re sharing the highs and lows from our travel day to Puglia, including our very first business class flight and ... Show More
39m 14s
May 2025
Is Your Toxic Relationship Making You Sick?
Listen bestie, you know that tight feeling in your chest, the unexplained fatigue, the random headaches and sleepless nights? That’s your body screaming: this relationship is toxic!! RUN. (We're talking, romantic, platonic, or family—no one gets a free pass.)Today, Violetta revea ... Show More
28m 44s
Aug 2024
706. This is How You Move Forward After Heartbreak
If you’re heartbroken right now, this episode is for you. This week, K+L discuss the psychological and physical impacts of ending a relationship. The girls are your personal guides through the process of feeling these intense emotions, creating healthy post-breakup routines, and ... Show More
37m 20s
Sep 10
Why Smart Women Stay in Toxic Relationships (And Ignore the Red Flags) | Dr. Anna Machin
Craving love can connect us—or leave us vulnerable to harm we never saw coming. In this episode, I (Lisa Bilyeu) sit down with evolutionary anthropologist Dr. Anna Machin to peel back the science behind why we’re drawn to love, why it can blind us to red flags, and how manipulato ... Show More
55m 11s
Aug 2024
Navigating Your Twenties: How to Stop People Pleasing, Take Control of Your Bad Habits, Find What Makes You Happy & *ACTUALLY* Follow Your Dreams
This week's episode Kenzie sits down with Twenty Whatever to record another episode on navigating your twenties. The girls are talking financial literacy, relieving stress, following your dreams, taking the harder path, how to stop people pleasing, and following your dreams. ENJO ... Show More
51m 26s
Jan 2025
Re-release: Toolkit to Navigate Bad Days
As we step into the new year, we recognize that this has been a challenging time for many. Whether you’re navigating personal struggles, grieving a loss, or feeling the impact of the devastating Southern California fires, we want you to know that you’re not alone—we’re here to su ... Show More
59m 9s
Aug 20
406: The Psychology of Fame, Codependency and Reclaiming Your Life with Terri Cole
Terri Cole is a therapist, author and former high-powered talent agent. From navigating the high-glam world of modeling agencies to helping A-listers through rehab, Terri's journey from powerhouse talent agent to renowned psychotherapist is anything but ordinary. In this episode, ... Show More
55m 41s
Sep 1
Why I Broke Up With a Good Person
Breaking up is never easy—especially when the person you’re leaving isn’t toxic, cruel, or a bad partner, but simply not the right match. In this episode, Jillian shares her personal story of ending a relationship with a “good person” and the powerful lessons she learned about va ... Show More
31m 43s
Oct 6
How to Actually Manifest Your Soulmate
Jillian teaches how to truly manifest a soulmate—without the “woo.” She shares a proven step-by-step method that has helped thousands of people attract emotionally healthy, aligned relationships—complete with simple daily practices to calm your system, raise your standards, and d ... Show More
25m 59s