In this solo episode, I get vulnerable about a big life change I’m going through and what it’s teaching me about growth, and timing. I break down two listener scenarios: one from someone in a long-term relationship wondering if they’re settling because the spark feels missing, and another from a single listener questioning whether to lower their standards or ... Show More
Sep 8
Finding Love, Getting Married, and Figuring Out What Comes Next
Erica Shea is back on Seeing Other People, and this time she’s married. After years of dating, heartbreak, situationships, and wondering if she was ever going to find her person, Erica is now on the other side of the story—and realizing that finding your person is only the beginn ... Show More
48m 48s
Sep 7
Preparing for Baby, Eating Our Way Through NYC & Football Season
This week, we’re catching up on life lately. We talk baby registry overwhelm, the stroller we think we’re getting, football season, the best things we ate this week, and how different our lives will look this time next year. Plus, Ilana’s newest obsession, getting ahead before ma ... Show More
42m 51s
May 2021
293 - All feelings, no facts (do you actually like them?)
<p>In this episode, I talk about the ONE question to ask yourself that will empower you to actually live your dating standards. I talk about not getting distracted by them and what "might" be.</p> <p> Get "The New Mindset Journal", "Single is your Superpower" and "UNBOTHERED" (h ... Show More
16m 51s
Oct 2024
Ep. 261 - How to 10x your dating potential without going on 100 dates
<p>Feeling stuck in your dating life, overwhelmed by advice, or just underwhelmed by the experience? This episode is for you. Today, we dive into a powerful coaching session that transformed one of my clients, helping her break free from the confusion and struggle (hustle) of dat ... Show More
11m 57s
May 2022
19. single for the summer, spiritual realizations & learning to step into my feminine energy
In today's episode I share some personal realizations I've been making about my journey being 26, single, and stepping into my womanhood. So many changes, spiritual realizations and learning how to trust that the universe is bringing me exactly where I need to be, and I thought y ... Show More
22m 58s
Mar 2025
Commitment vs. Compatibility: Are You in the Right Relationship?
In this episode, I explore the difference between commitment and compatibility, sharing my personal experience navigating these challenges in a past relationship. I also discuss how to recognize the distinction, helping you better assess whether you’re in the right relationship.L ... Show More
14m 29s
Jul 2025
184. Chasing vs Pursuing: When To Show Interest (And When To Move On)
In this episode, I’m breaking down the difference between healthy pursuit and unhealthy chasing in dating, because yes, there’s a big difference. I share personal stories of times I chased and was chased, plus the subtle signs someone’s just not that into you (and what to do when ... Show More
34m 41s