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Aug 20
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406: The Psychology of Fame, Codependenc...

Dear Media, Arielle Lorre
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Terri Cole is a therapist, author and former high-powered talent agent. From navigating the high-glam world of modeling agencies to helping A-listers through rehab, Terri's journey from powerhouse talent agent to renowned psychotherapist is anything but ordinary. In this episode, we get into the hidden cost of success, high-functioning codependency, why hyper-independence can backfire, and how conflict entrepreneurs thrive on chaos. Terri opens up about navigating addiction in her own family, being engaged to the wrong person, and the magnetic pull between codependents and narcissists—plus the crucial difference between overt and covert narcissism. It’s a candid, layered conversation about healing, boundaries, and reclaiming yourself.


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