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Sep 2024
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#146: All About COMMITMENT Issues & Foll...

Gloria Zhang, MA
About this episode

Need Help With Breaking Dating/Relationship Patterns? Learn to see if the Soulmate program is right for you by booking a free breakthrough call here.

"Commitment phobia or fear of commitment is more than just hopping from one relationship to the next. It's a deeper inner child wound that sneaks into all areas of your life."

Did you know that commitment phobia may not only manifest in relationships but also when it comes to unfinished projects, hobby hopping or even in books or courses that you start but never finish?

And in this episode, I'll tell you how this childhood wound manifests in a lot of things that we do outside of relationships, why it happens and some helpful tips to help you heal this. Wondering what it involves? I'll give you a clue: "delulu is the solulu"Ā 

Sounds kinda funny but I promise - this has gotten me and my clients great results and I'd love for you to try it too!

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EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:

  1. How commitment phobia manifests in other things outside of relationships and why it happens
  2. Three stories to illustrate the root causes of commitment phobia and how to overcome them
  3. Call to Action: Explore your own fears around commitment, share your experiences with the Delulu method and your takeaways from this episode by tagging me on Instagram @bygloriazhang or participating in our Spotify poll below!

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MENTIONED IN PODCAST:

  1. Listen to Episode 32: Why Aren't they Committing to Me?
  2. Book A Free Breakthrough Call: Ā Learn to see if the Soulmate program is right for you by booking a free call here.

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OTHER RESOURCES:

  1. Follow for daily inspo on @bygloriazhang!
  2. Order my book: "A Woman's Guide to Inner Child Healing"

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