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Sep 2024
42m 59s

The people who don't grow may never acce...

PAUL COLAIANNI
About this episode
When certain people in your life prefer the old you instead of the new one, you may face their resistance and maybe even their frustration. When you learn, heal and grow, you let go of old dysfunctions and sometimes even old relationships if they can't adjust to the new you.  
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