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Aug 2024
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408 SelfWork: How To Be There For Someon...

MARGARET ROBINSON RUTHERFORD PHD
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Today we’re focusing on the tools necessary to help you listen and "how to be there” for someone else. We'll discuss what it’s like to listen to the stories of those who trust you to create a safe space for them to talk – and what it means to “be there” for someone. What it’s like to hear things that are very hard to hear. And what it’s like to carry on wit ... Show More
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