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Aug 2024
35m 47s

When Will I Be Enough? (Coaching Session...

Joe Hudson and Brett Kistler
About this episode

What does it mean to be “enough” to have a relationship? In this episode, Joe coaches a woman grappling with feelings of inadequacy in relationships. Through their conversation, they uncover her underlying desire for control and fear of self-abandonment. Together, they examine her beliefs about love, worthiness, and connection.

Topics discussed:

  • the importance of self-love
  • surrendering control
  • embracing vulnerability in relationships

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