Apr 2023

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61: How do you know if you're in the "ri...

About this episode

In this episode, I chat with a dear friend of mine and coach, Sarah Yudkin, who has been inhabiting the relationship anxiety space with me for years! In this episode, we address the following:

What is "the right" relationship and is that even the question we should be asking ourselves?

What it means to make an aligned decision

How does one discern whether or not a relationship is worth investing more time into?

Find Sarah over at www.instagram.com/youloveandyoulearn

Other links:

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Apply to work 1:1 with me here: https://www.anxiouslovecoach.com/1-on-1-coaching-with-natalie

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