Aug 13

The More You Want It, the More Time It Will Take

In this episode, I talk about how your perception of time can be changed based on where your focus lies. If you like my thoughts and insights, follow me on my socials below for more! To be clear, I am not a therapist! I am just very interested in and passionate about self-awarene ... Show More

14m 7s

Aug 6

Is Life Too Heavy, or Are You Just Better Able to Carry Its Weight?

In this episode, I offer a reframing technique that’s worked for me whenever I start to perceive life as too heavy to handle.If you like my thoughts and insights, follow me on my socials below for more! To be clear, I am not a therapist! I am just very interested in and passionat ... Show More

10m 43s

Jul 23

Are You a Bad Person?

In this episode, I explain how even after doing all the personal development work you can possibly do, you’ll still sometimes make mistakes and feel like a bad person. This is part of the process and should be seen as an opportunity to recognize what works and doesn’t work for yo ... Show More

19m 50s

Jul 15

How Avoidant Attachment Can Lead to Selfish Tendencies

We often talk about the emotional distance of avoidant attachers—but what if that “selfishness” is actually a protective coping mechanism?In this episode, I unpack how avoidant attachment can stem from emotional neglect and how hyper-independence becomes a substitute for unmet em ... Show More

8m 19s

Dec 2023

Why you get anxious in relationship

We're diving deep into the heart of anxious avoidance in relationships. If you've ever felt like running for the hills when things get too real, this episode is your safe haven. Join me as I unpack the complex world of anxious avoidance. Why do we push away love when we crave it ... Show More

21m 23s

Feb 2025

Tuesday Truth: Breaking Free from Rigidity – How to Embrace Flexibility and Deepen Relationships

Are You Stuck in Black-and-White Thinking? Let’s Talk About It.If you struggle with intense emotions, fear of abandonment, or difficulty navigating relationships, you might also feel trapped in rigid thinking patterns—the kind that say, “If they really loved me, they wouldn’t hav ... Show More

37m 18s

Jul 15

#197: What Avoidant People Need to Thrive in a Relationship

In today’s episode, we’re exploring what avoidant attached people actually need to feel safe and secure in a relationship — and how partners can support that without self-abandoning.Avoidant attachment is often misunderstood — labelled as cold, distant, or commitment-phobic. But ... Show More

21m 39s

Apr 2025

#185: How Caretaking Impacts Our Relationships

REGISTER FOR MY NEW FREE TRAININGMany of us are taught that taking care of the people we love is the ultimate expression of devotion. But when caring crosses the line into caretaking, it can quietly create deep imbalances in our relationships.Caretaking often stems from anxiety, ... Show More

21m 30s

Jun 18

301: Essential Insights for Understanding an Avoidant

Do you keep attracting emotionally unavailable partners? Are you dating someone who pulls away just when things get close? When this happens, it’s easy to feel lost and wonder if the person you’re dating is avoidant or simply not that interested. In this episode, Matthew, Stephen ... Show More

57m 10s

Mar 2025

Boundaries & What's Right

Explore the tension between personal experience and factual correctness in relationships, particularly in boundary-setting and decision-making. The hosts discuss how relying too heavily on logic and research to "win" arguments can create gridlock and emotional disconnection, emph ... Show More

55m 51s

Jul 22

#198: What Anxiously Attached People Need to Thrive in a Relationship

When you have an anxious attachment style, it can be hard to know what you actually need to feel secure — especially if past relationships have left you second-guessing yourself or trying to manage your anxiety by suppressing your needs.In this episode, we’re exploring five key i ... Show More

21m 59s

May 10

#187: Is It Better to Heal While Single or in a Relationship?

Whether you’re single or partnered, you might find yourself wondering: Am I in the right place to do this work? There’s often an unspoken belief that there’s a “best” time to heal — and that if we’re not doing it in the ideal conditions, we’re doing it wrong.In this episode, I’ll ... Show More

24m 37s

Why Avoidants Might Sometimes Prefer Lim...