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Apr 2024
32m 51s

#19 - Attachment Theory: Insecure Attach...

Shona Vertue
About this episode

Can two people with an insecure attachment style ACTUALLY be together?

How do the insecure attachment styles differ?

What were the seminal studies that helped us to understand more about attachment theory?

Do we need to 'fix' our attachment style?


All these questions answered and more in one of my favourite episodes to record ever.


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