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Oct 2025
17m 46s

Emotional Avoidance Isn’t Helping You Co...

Lizandra Leigertwood
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In this episode, I explore emotional avoidance — what it looks like, why it shows up in women with high-functioning anxiety, and how it often ties back to childhood trauma. We also dive into how disconnection from your body keeps emotions stuck, and practical ways to notice and gently process your feelings without overwhelm. You’ll learn how to: Recognise t ... Show More
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