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May 2024
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1127: [Relationships] "Healthy Apologies...

Hosted by Heather Chauvin | Insights inspired by Mel Robbins, Bréne Brown,
About this episode

“Emotional awareness is the first step to healing, and an apology without sincere empathy is just empty words. True reconciliation requires both understanding and action.” – Dr. Harriet Lerner

In this episode, I talk about:
  • Understanding emotional triggers and responses
  • The elements of a genuine apology
  • ⁠Personal stories of repair and reconciliation

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