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Apr 2024
30m 7s

Have Lasting Conversations: The Rule of ...

PATRICK KING
About this episode

Feeling awkward in conversations? Don't worry, charm isn't about you - it's about making others feel heard!

00:00:00 Hello listeners

00:01:28 Talk WITH people and not TO them

00:17:18 Sustain Conversations with Conversational Threading and Useful Acronyms

This video dives into Chapter 2 of "Tools of the Charming" and unveils powerful techniques to keep conversations flowing and engaging.

Discover the "Rule of Three" that prevents you from rambling, and learn the magic of "Conversational Threading" to effortlessly navigate discussions. ✨


You'll learn:


The secret to charm: It's not about you! (Spoiler: It's all about making them feel good!)


The "Rule of Three": Stop information overload and keep conversations interesting.


Conversational Threading: Never run out of things to say!


Why content is secondary to emotional connection.


Become a master conversationalist today!


P.S. Being open-minded, spontaneous, and genuine are key to everyday conversational success!

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