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Feb 2024
1h 37m

425. Negotiating a Raise — and a Better ...

Dr. Jordan B. Peterson
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Dr. Jordan Peterson speaks with author, teacher, and prior hostage negotiator Chris Voss. They discuss the necessity of prioritizing needs and wants, how to navigate the job market to fit your best potential, how and why to go after a raise, the primacy of invitational collaboration over compelled, and how Voss succeeded in many real-world hostage negotiatio ... Show More
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