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Feb 2024
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Did Our Childhood Sabotage Our Relations...

Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar
About this episode

In today's episode, I sit down with Vienna Pharaon, Family & Marriage Therapist, National Bestselling Author of The Origins of You, host of the new podcast This Keeps Happening, and the expert behind the popular Instagram account @mindfulmft. We discuss good habits to create early on in relationships, how our family patterns affect us in dating, knowing if a problem is perpetual or solvable, repairing after a fight, gentle parenting, the common issues couples or families face, how AI will affect our relationships, and more.

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