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Feb 2023
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#153 Healing Through Origin Wounds with ...

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Today I interviewed Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Vienna Pharaon about her new book The Origins of You which talks all about how our origin wounds (the wounds we get in our early lives) can impact us so dramatically as adults. In this episode we talk more specifically about how those origin wounds can impact us in relationships and what they look like when going through a breakup. Vienna's book is incredible I feel so lucky I was able to read an early copy and you can get yours today!

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